Why Coaching is one of the most rewarding jobs ever, no matter how much (or little) the monetary gains

Sheesh, it's definitely been awhile since I've visited Blogger. I guess two weeks really isn't that long, but with my rigorous graduate school curriculum and extra curricular activities, I haven't found much time, or inspiration, to write something of substance.

Thankfully yesterday, however, I was once again inspired in such a way that evoked a gentle reminder of the things in life that truly matter to me.

I have accepted a part time job as a club volleyball coach for young, eager athletes, and yesterday was our first tournament of the season. I approached the big day with some nervous excitement.

For starters, I've never coached a team as young as these girls: 12 years old, some younger. My past two head coaching jobs were at SMCC for the freshmen volleyball team and at Monroe County Community College for the club volleyball team. I tend to relate to the older age group and feel that my motivational leadership style pushes young adults to reach their full potential.

So when you're used to dealing with older students, approaching a younger group might be a little scary. But I am happy to say that yesterday was generally a success. This young team played their hearts out and made it to the final round in the gold bracket, just finishing short of an overall victory.

While winning is always an inherent endeavor, coaching young kids is so much more than striving for a victory. The rewarding feeling that coaching generates is truly unmatched.

I will admit that coaching can be quite stressful, especially dealing with fickle teenage attitudes or drama. But even then, there's always some pretty great stories--good, bad, and ugly--to bring home to friends, family, and your significant other.

Moreover, considering the fact that the commitment and time involved doesn't exactly pay for itself, a coach might often wonder if it's worth his or her time and energy. But, while the number on the paycheck might be small, the inherent, psychological reward offers so much more than money can ever buy.

In the heat of a game when players are getting nervous, referees are getting antsy or testy, parents are shouting on the sidelines, and a BAJILLION other kids or players are walking alongside the court on their way to the concession stand--sometimes INSIDE the court (like, move people. We are in the middle of a game!!)--it's a challenge for a coach to maintain his or her composure.

And that's when it happens. You get that look of excitement or verbal declaration from a player looking for approval because she did something right: She got a nice kill, she hustled after a ball to save the play, or she even applied that wrist-snap technique you should her to throw the defense off of their game.

"Coach! Did you see it? I did that snap thing you showed me! It really works!"


Well, no shit Sherlock, I wouldn't have showed you otherwise. That's generally what my unconscious mind might be processing while my outward appearance emanates a large smile and a nod of the head all the while clapping and proclaiming, "great job sweetie! I knew you could do it."

That feeling is truly incredible, and for that moment in time, all the stress embedded in the coaching job description essentially vanishes. Of further positive affirmation, is when parents approach you after the game and thank you for the good job you've done so far or tell you how much their daughters enjoy their experience on this team. And, it's only the beginning of the season!

I know that they say if you do what you love that you'll never have to work a day in your life. While a part-time coaching job can not offer any financial support for living expenses, it is absolutely one of the most rewarding "jobs" I've ever had.

To see that personal growth in skill-improvement, mental strength, and motivation... there are just no words...no words to describe the pure bliss...the success a coach feels for having an integral role in their players reaching their full potential.

So, if you're looking for some inspiration or you want to make a difference, coach a team in a sport you love. Or teach. Or tutor a subject you like. The psychological gains and the emotional relationships you develop with your students and players are absolutely remarkable.

And nothing can take that away.

Happy Monday!

~Elizabeth